Today’s Seniors (age 55+) are more active than ever, both physically and spiritually! Bay Leaf offers many opportunities for Seniors to worship, fellowship, and to serve.
Seniors at Bay Leaf enjoy some of the most caring Sunday School classes around, with plenty of choices for couples, ladies, and men. Worship services offer choice of traditional hymns (8:30), contemporary (9:45), or blended worship (11:00). Our “Keenagers” group (see tab above) provides fellowship and fun with monthly luncheons and regular trips too. And for times of special needs, we have a full set of resources (see tab above) ready to make sure families get the support they need. Seniors at Bay Leaf are served by their own pastor, Rev. Don Gilbert.
If you are interested in finding out ways you can get involved in ministry at Bay Leaf Baptist Church view the Ministries for Seniors Brochure.
Seniors On Facebook
If you are a member of Bay Leaf, you can become a part of the secret Facebook group called “Bay Leaf Seniors”. In this group, we list prayer requests, such as when a person goes into the hospital, or has other serious needs. Then, you can comment on the request right in Facebook, and our Pastor for Seniors will read all your comments and prayers to the person in the hospital, or wherever they are. This is so encouraging to people in need, so we ask that you consider signing up!
This group is “secret” so no one outside Bay Leaf will ever see the comments. If you like, we can also help you adjust your Facebook settings so that you do not automatically share your everyday work with so many people, as well.
If you are interested, send an e-mail to our Pastor for Seniors, Don Gilbert. Or you can call him at the church office.
Our monthly luncheon is free for our “Keenagers” (55 and over) and offers a wonderful home-cooked meal, plus entertainment, door prizes, and more! We meet the third Tuesday of each month (except June, July and August) at 11:00 – 1:00, in the fellowship hall at Bay Leaf. Our upcoming dates are:
Bluegrass music by the Tibbits' Family
The Wakefield Five
Monday, September 12 | 1-3pm
Led by Don Gilbert
Come learn about IPAD basics & tools to help you use it more efficiently! Participants should come to the class with:
· Your iPad or iPhone, all charged up
· Know the 4-digit code to unlock the device, if needed
· Bring your e-mail address, and know your e-mail password
· A notebook to write notes in
Morehead Planetarium exhibit & Mama Dips
Chapel Hill, NC
Thursday, October 6 | 10:00am
Join us for a fun day visiting the Morehead planetarium and then lunch at Mama Dips restaurant in Chapel Hill. Cost is $6.50 for the museum & approx. $10-15 for lunch. You will bring your own money to lunch & order off the menu. To learn more check out www.moreheadplanetarium.org & www.mamadips.com
Ladies Outing to Southern Season
Chapel Hill, NC
Thursday, October 27 | 9:00 am
Southern Season is the premier destination for specialty food, gift and entertaining items. Since its creation in 1975, Southern Season has been known for the breadth and quality of its gourmet food, houseware and cookware. We’ll shop & eat lunch at the shop restaurant. Bring your own money to shop and then for lunch. Visit www.southernseason.com for more info on the store & restaurant.
Men’s Outing to Cabela’s & lunch at Captain Stanley’s
Tuesday, November 1 | 9:00 am
Cabela’s is your home for quality hunting, fishing, camping, recreational shooting & outdoor gear! We will meet at 9am and go to Cabela’s and then eat lunch at 11:30 at Captain Stanley’s seafood restaurant. Bring your own money.
Selling stuff online!
Monday, November 7 | 1-3pm
Come learn how to sell things safely online through sites like Ebay, Craiglist & Buy Sale Trade.
Holiday Tour of Tryon Palace & Lunch at the Chelsea Restaurant
Thursday, December 8 | 7:30 am
We’ll meet in the church parking lot at 7:30 am and head to New Bern, NC to enjoy a holiday themed tour throughout Tryon Palace, including the Governor's Palace and historic homes. Afterwards we’ll dine at “The Chelsea” restaurant for lunch. For more info visit www.tryonpalace.org and www.thechelsea.com. Approx. cost for the palace is $13 per person & lunch is approx. $15-20. Bring your own money!
To sign up for any of these events or trips, contact Kelly in the church office at email@example.com.
Wii Bowling / Game Day
Each first Monday of the month from 1-3PM join us in the fellowship Hall. No experience necessary! You can stand or sit for this fun and competitive activity! Contact Kelly Cash to reserve your space – 919-847-4477.
Men's Road Trip
Go out on Fridays to eat with us at a famous BBQ restaurant!
Cooking With The Ladies
Mondays 1-3PM at someone’s home. Volunteer to host one! Call Kelly Cash to get involved – 919-847-4477.
Bay Leaf Baptist Church can help with short-term issues in the following ways:
If you have an issue find a Bay Leaf member who can help you! Click to view our Services Directory
Fellowship & Support:
The first line of defense is the fellowship and support of a Sunday School Class. Click here to view a current listing of Sunday School classes.
If you or a loved one would enjoy a personal visit from a pastoral staff member, please contact the church office.
If you would like to be able to read prayer requests and add your own responses, sign up for our Facebook group by contacting pastor Don Gilbert
Bay Leaf Seniors may join keenagers and enjoy monthly luncheons and occasional trips.
Sunday School classes provide hot meals for members who are homebound, returned home from hospitalization, disabled, etc. If you are not a member of a Sunday School class, please contact the church office with your meal needs.
Sunday School Classes may provide for limited transportation needs for members who are either disabled or are unable to drive. For extensive transportation needs, please view the external resources below.
Bay Leaf Builders:
Provides building of handicapped ramps and minor, general repairs for those who are unable, physically or financially, to do so. Contact the church office for more information.
Seniors can call the church receptionist (919‐847‐4477) and request help with a household task or repair, then a man will be dispatched to help. The only cost is for parts. It takes many men with all kinds of expertise to make this ministry work. Contact: Bob Ussery 919‐847‐4477.
The People’s Pharmacy:
A weekly 1-hour radio show hosted by Joe & Terry Graedon, airs Saturday mornings on WNPR (FM 91.5) at 7:00am, and features health news and interviews with health professionals addressing new therapies and health tips. CDs of these programs are available in the BLBC Media Center for check out. Recent shows included such useful topics as eye health, new dieting strategies, foods for weight control, prostate health, radiation abuse, Medicare updates, maintaining memory and more. New episodes will be added on a monthly basis, so check back often to see what's available if you're unable to listen to the radio programs. Episodes currently available are below:
|885||Is Your Sofa Toxic?||(12/22/2012)|
|884||Fighting the Flu||(12/15/2012)|
|882||Unexpected Side Effects||(12/1/2012)|
|881||The Art of Diagnosis||(11/24/2012)|
|880||How Safe Are Sweeteners?||(11/10/2012)|
|878||Solving the Sleep Dilemma||(10/27/2012)|
|877||Keeping Your Heart Healthy||(10/20/2012)|
|876||The Great Vitamin Debate||(10/13/2012)|
|873||Hidden Hazards In Your Environment||(9/22/2012)|
|871||Minimizing Medical Mistakes||(9/8/2012)|
|869||How Safe Is Aluminum?||(8/18/2012)|
|868||Food As Medicine||(8/11/2012)|
|859||Medical Myths & the Future of Health Care||(5/26/2012)|
|857||Night Shift in the ER||(5/12/2012)|
|856||Celiac Disease Update||(5/5/2012)|
|855||Health News Update||(4/28/2012)|
|854||The Blood Sugar Solution||(4/21/2012)|
|852||Health News Update||(3/29/2012)|
|850||BPA In Your Soup?||(3/17/2012)|
|849||Move A Little, Lose A Lot||(3/10/2012)|
|848||Health News Update||(3/3/2012)|
|780||Cancer and the Immune System||(2/25/2012)|
|847||Asthma and Infection||(2/18/2012)|
|846||Vitamin D Debate||(2/11/2012)|
|845||Aspirin Secrets Revealed||(2/4/2012)|
|843||New Visions for Healthcare||(1/21/2012)|
|842||Health & the Environment||(1/14/2012)|
|841||Health News Update||(1/7/2012)|
|798||The Scalpel and The Soul||(12/24/2011)|
|839||Health News Update||(12/17/2011)|
|838||The Wild Life of Our Bodies||(12/10/2011)|
|837||Prostate Cancer Puzzle||(12/3/2011)|
|836||Foods for Weight Control||(11/19/2011)|
|834||Radiation & Imaging Use & Overuse||(11/5/2011)|
|833||Eye Health (Dry Eye, Spots & Floaters, more)||(10/29/2011)|
|825||Dr Google & e-patients||(8/20/2011)|
|823||Why We Get Fat||(8/6/2011)|
Resources for Seniors that are not provided by Bay Leaf Baptist Church
Abbotswood at Stonehenge's Caregiver Support Group:
Each month Abbotswood at Stonehenge hosts a Caregiver Support Group on the 3rd Thursday evening from 6:00 to 7:30 pm. This special opportunity is open to any adult child dealing with the challenges of caring for an aging parent or loved one. Linda Kendall M.Ed., LPC facilitates this monthly meeting designed to offer support, encouragement and practical help to caregivers. For more information and to receive email notices of these meetings, contact Linda Kendall at Abbotswood, 919-847-3202.
Citizen's Well-check Program:
The Wake County Sheriff's Office offers a Citizen's Well-check program. If you are a senior living alone in Wake County, or if you have parents or friends who live alone, The Citizens Well-check Program is now available through the Wake County Sheriff's office. Seniors who participate in the program are automatically checked on by phone 365 days a year. The Well-check Program will also attempt to call a second time if there is no response, the line is busy, or an answering machine picks up. If the Member cannot be reached, the Sheriff's Office will call the emergency contact numbers. If the Member cannot be reached, the Sheriff's Office will dispatch a deputy to the Member's residence to determine if he or she is okay.
The Program Criteria is: 1) Be 65 or older, or have medical problems; 2) Live in Wake County; 3) Have a next-of-kin or relative available as responsible party.
For additional information on this Program, contact The Citizen's Well-check Administrator, Deputy Laura Driver, at 919-856-6495.
Cleaning For A Reason:
Women who are undergoing chemotherapy may be eligible for a cleaning service that provides FREE housecleaning -- once a month for 4 months -- while in treatment. To apply for this service, sign up via the link below and have the treating doctor fax a note confirming the treatment. CLEANING FOR A REASON will have a participating maid service in your zip code area arrange for the service. This organization serves the entire USA and currently has 547 partners participating in this offer to help women currently in treatment. www.cleaningforareason.org
MonroeWallace Law Group specializes in all forms of legal documents for Seniors. Areas include Elder Law, Estate Planning, Wills, Guardianship & Estate Administration and Health Care Directives such as Living Wills, Health Care Power of Attorney, and Durable General Power of Attorney. Contact Gregory Wallace at 876-1400 or firstname.lastname@example.org
www.healthtrax.com provides fitness services, programs, classes and other resources to keep you healthy and fit. If you have a medicare supplemental policy, check with your provider to determine if your plan qualifies for the Silver Sneakers Program which caters specifically to senior wellness. Or you may call (919) 847-2393 for more information.
Gentiva Home Health services can assist with rehabilitation from such medical events as a stroke or surgery, as well as help manage chronic conditions such as diabetes, heart disease or arthritis. Home Healthcare is a bridge between your doctor and your home and helps you live your life to its fullest through care that’s delivered right in the comfort of your home. To determine if home healthcare is right for you, speak with your physician or call Kasey Wright at Gentiva Home Health at 919-881-9492 or visit www.gentiva.com
Homewatch CareGivers of the Triangle:
Locally owned and operated, Homewatch CareGivers has been in the Triangle area for over thirty years providing services for Alzheimer’s and Dementia Care, Personal Care and Companionship, 24-Hour Care, and Nurse Supervised Caregivers.
• Companion Services: includes home safety supervision, medication reminders, escort to appointments, light housekeeping, healthy meal preparation, laundry, change bed linens, and pick-up prescriptions, groceries, etc.
• Transportation Services: includes doctor’s appointments, hair salon, barber shop, shopping, social activities.
• Personal Care Services: includes bathing and grooming, dressing, mobility assistance, help with incontinence, transfers, taking and recording vital signs, assist with eating, oral hygiene.
• Other Services: includes discharge assistance, Alzheimer’s/Dementia care, care for chronic conditions, post surgery assistance.
Fees range from $17 - $21/hour. For additional information, contact Anne Browning at Homewatch CareGivers at 919-461-3741 or visit www.homewatchcaregivers.com.
Hospice is a special way of caring for people with terminal illnesses. Knowing when to schedule a hospice evaluation can be difficult. The Homeland Hospice Care team is available 24/7 – just to talk or to arrange a visit. Some of their services include comforting care, provided by an interdisciplinary team; pain and symptom management; psychosocial and spiritual support; medications; equipment and supplies; patient and family education; comforting treatments; therapies; and bereavement services. Contact Sarah Jansen, Homeland Hospice Care at 919-981-6238 or visit www.heartlandhospice.com
North Carolina Department of Insurance:
www.ncshiip.com provides free assistance with Social Security, Medicare, Medicare Part D, Medicare Supplements, Medicare Advantage, and Long-Term Care Insurance. Or you may call (919) 807-6900 for more information.
Resources For Seniors:
For a comprehensive directory of external services and long-term assistance, please visit www.resourcesforseniors.com. Some areas covered include:
Veterans Services, Insurance, Employment, Finance, Housing, Adult Day Care, Long-Term Care, Home Care, Hospice, Medical and Health Issues, Senior Centers/Clubs/Organizations, Social Security, and End of Life Planning.
Senior Adult Ministries Group:
Jim Trull, Wealth Manager and Certified Financial Planner Professional at Keystone Financial Partners, provides expertise in the area of Wealth Management for clients who are facing or have already experienced major life changes including retirement, divorce, or the loss of a spouse. For further information, contact Jim Trull at 463-0018 or email@example.com
A Vital Documents Locator Form can be downloaded to assist in organizing your affairs, as well as important contacts for future reference. This tool is an especially effective way to ease the transition after the loss of a spouse. Click to download the Vital Information Form.
Your Next Move:
www.yournextmovenc.com provides senior housing locator services, home sale assistance, relocation assistance, and estate sale services. Or you may call (919) 601-8203 for a consultation to determine your exact needs during your senior's transition.
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For any other needs not mentioned, Contact Don Gilbert, Seniors Pastor at Bay Leaf, (919) 847-4477, for assistance or referrals.
Frauds Aimed at Senior Citizens– If you or someone you know has been a victim of suspected fraud, call the NC Department of the Secretary of State Securities Division at 919-733-3924.
How to protect yourself:
1. It’s Ok to say “No.”
2. Be careful of people with fancy titles.
3. Always stay in charge of your money.
4. Watch out for salespeople who prey on your fears.
5. Monitor your investments and ask tough questions.
6. Look out for any trouble retrieving principal or cashing out profits.
7. Beware of “reload” scams.
8. Don’t be lulled into a misplaced trust based on the advice of others.
9. Ignore claims that religion-based investments are not subject to regulation.
10. Check out the promoter and the investment.
While very little of the money lost to investment fraud is recovered, the sooner you recognize that you been victimized and speak up promptly, the more likely it is that you might recover some or all of your funds. You will surely help keep other seniors from becoming victimized, too.
How to protect yourself against online investment schemes:
1. Don’t expect to get rich quick
2. Don’t assume that your online computer service polices its investment bulletin boards.
3. Don’t buy thinly traded, little known stocks strictly on the basis of online hype.
4. Don’t act on the advice of a person who hides his or her identity.
5. Don’t get fooled by claims made about “inside information,” including pending news releases, contract announcements, and products.
6. Don’t assume that just because someone says that they have checked something out that they have actually done so.
7. Watch out for conflicts of interest.
8. Make sure that an investment opportunity and the person promoting it are properly registered with the State Securities Agency.
For more information on how to protect you or a loved one from being a victim of fraud, contact the NC Department of the Secretary of State Securities Division, 919-733-3924; email firstname.lastname@example.org, or visit website at http://www.sosnc.com.
Non-Endorsement DisclaimerBay Leaf Baptist Church does not endorse or recommend any service, organization, or business mentioned on its website, but merely provides information relative to resources for seniors and their families in Raleigh and Wake County.
Bay Leaf Senior Visitation
We have many home-bound or long-term care members in our Senior community at Bay Leaf. They would be so encouraged to receive a call, a card, or especially a visit from you! If you would like to do such a visit – maybe taking along a friend – all you have to do is call our church receptionist at 847-4477 and she will give you a recommendation of someone who needs visiting. Then when you are done, please call her back to let her know you did the visit, so we can keep track.